GROWTH EMULATES NATURE - PARENTING
/Happy Saturday! How has your week been? ๐๐
My heart used to sooooooo long and desire for parenting to feel easier. ๐ฉโ๐ฆ๐ฉโ๐ฆ It used to feel so hard and I used to feel so frustrated. I mean I only had one child - how my grandmother had ten was completely beyond my comprehension. ๐ฒ๐ฅด๐ค๐๐๐ I can now connect wholeheartedly with the feeling of peace, ease and internal fulfillment as a mother. โฎ๐โฎ๐๐ It has been a process of growth using the Emotionally Happy Homesยฎ systems. Below is a lose structure on how growth can take shape. ๐ก๐บ๐
I love growth - like really love it! Perhaps it's from all the sport I played as a kid. ๐ดโโ๏ธ๐คธโโ๏ธโน๏ธโโ๏ธ๐คพโโ๏ธ๐โโ๏ธ๐คฝโโ๏ธ When you live in a country town, it's kinda what you do to fill your leisure time! Or it was what I did. ๐ซโจ I played so many different sports and loved growing in all of them - I would practice, practice and practice. Similar to growth where you keep exploring your internal world until you 'feel' like you've so got it! ๐ฑ๐ด๐ฒ๐ผ
With growth, you start by untangling your tree roots (family patterns and programs). ๐ฑ๐๐ฑ๐ด Those roots may all feel a bit tangled and messy in the beginning and you may need to create many new beliefs to support your heart/higher self. ๐๐๐ Eventually you get to a space where you unconditionally feel love for everyone in your family. It may not mean hanging out with them every day, however you deeply appreciate your lineage and understand that you are their evolution. ๐งโโ๏ธ๐งโโ๏ธ๐๐
You start to put in place daily, weekly rhythms to support yourself being the best version of you in your home (in my case: stillness time๐, meditation, yoga ๐งโโ๏ธ, plant based food๐ฑ, conscious conversation, awareness, nature ๐ฆ, money education๐ฐ), knowing that these same rhythms will create synchronicity, vitality and energy in your life. ๐ค๐ค๐โจ
The next step is to build a strong trunk ๐๐ด- it can feel challenging at times, because you may need to have a number of different experiences to explore whether you bend or break in different situations. ๐ช๐ฑYou may need to pull apart lots of different patterns (that need evolve), programs (that need to change) or ancestral knots (inherited from grandparents, ancestors etc). ๐จโฎ๐ซโจ
However, those experiences enable you to grow your 'feeling' self and you start to discern what choices feel light in your body. ๐ผ๐งโโ๏ธ๐งโโ๏ธYou feel stronger, more empowered and more free to be who you are. You have an appreciation of the time you've invested in growth and if you have children they start to reflect your growth. You notice how free they are in following their excitement, independence and creativity. ๐จ๐๐๐งฉ๐ต๐ธYour evolution and growth, means they don't have to play out any of your unresolved emotional stuff in their own lives. ๐จ๐ซโฎโฏ
Although it may have taken time - months or even a few years for the mango tree to fruit, it has been so worth it! ๐๐๐ค๐The fruit grows easily and effortlessly and life reflects this. ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐๐ฅญThe heart of the tree is strong ๐จ๐, courageous and although storms, cyclones can show up, the tree feels an internal stillness, peace and quiet. โฎโฏ๐ The fruit nourishes you and everyone in the family. The past internal turbulent emotions no longer have any power - they have been understood, transformed and evolved. ๐จ๐ซโจ๐๐
Whatever it is you would love to excel in, expand, reach your potential in - never give up! It's all in you - it may take some deep growth to access all of the magic, โจ๐ซ๐vitality and ease, but know that your evolution feeds all future generations to come. ๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ฉโ๐ฉโ๐ง๐ฉ๐พโ๐คโ๐ฉ๐ผ๐จ๐ฟโ๐คโ๐จ๐ฝ
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Please know that you are so welcome to email me back if you have any questions, feedback or if there is anything I can help you with. ๐ Here's to creating Emotionally Happy Homesยฎ from the inside out. ๐
Sending you all so much love,
Kirsten
P.S. If you would love personal awareness to untangle any deep subconscious patterns and create your own Emotionally Happy Homeยฎ, please call our office angel, Jane or Suzy at Step Up Your Life, Coolum Beach on: 07 5351 1970. Can be done over the phone or via Skype. ๐๐๐๐